As we get closer to the end of the school year, I always begin to feel the strain of conflicting emotions. While I’m happy to see the successes of our departing seniors, I lament the loss of the day to day interaction with them that defines our positive school culture. I know it’s time to say goodbye, but I struggle mightily with the act of doing so.
In the majority of American high schools, the month of May is filled with the traditional rites of spring…testing, prom, final exams, and graduation. While the first of those feel familiar for our students, the last one is a mystery. The event itself, with its symbols and rituals, is not as nearly confusing as what it signifies. The cocoon of safety and comfortability that existed only hours before disappears one by one as each student shakes a hand and grabs a diploma. This ticket to the world arrives abruptly, a boarding train with a blowing whistle.
There are many books that make perfect gifts for graduates, including This is Water by David Foster Wallace and the classic Oh, The Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss. My favorite, however, is Scaredy Squirrel by Melanie Watt.
Scaredy Squirrel is the perfect reminder for the Class of 2016 and, really, people of all ages in all places. Whether you’re leaving high school, finishing college, considering a life change, or just need a nudge, this is the story for you.
Scaredy Squirrel lives safely and comfortably (remember that from earlier?) in his tree, far away from the dangers that lurk below. He fears Martians, germs, poison ivy, and tarantulas. He even fears sharks. When a killer bee (graduation) comes too close for his liking, Scaredy jumps from his tree into the unknown. It’s in that moment he finds that he has wings. He’s a flying squirrel, and the things he feared weren’t so scary after all.
Life is series of paths and decisions. Some work out well; some don’t. It’s all part of the growth process. But growth never happens if we aren’t willing to take risks. In the Bellevue Independent Schools, we encourage each other to take risks. I believe it is incumbent upon us to be fearless in our pursuits and to champion our students as they attempt their own brand of fearlessness.
The BHS class of 2016 now has the world in front of it. Those of us who crossed that stage years ago still have the world in front of us. There will always be Martians and tarantulas, but we need to believe in our skills, talents, and abilities. We need to be fearless. So irrespective of your status in life, jump. Just jump. You have wings.